• Worried About Applying To Nursery School Or Kindergarten?

    Authors Of The NYC Private School Admissions Handbook Share Their Advice

    By New York Family

    In
    2008, Jennifer Brozost, then an admissions officer at the Ethical Culture Fieldston School, approached her
    co-worker Vimmi Shroff with an idea: why not start a business to help New York City parents navigate the
    notoriously nerve-wracking process of applying to private schools? —

    The two women
    have seen New York’s private school
    admissions from every angle. Jennifer taught second grade before working in
    admissions for seven years; Vimmi taught kindergarten before her eight-year
    admissions career. They bonded when Jennifer was applying to schools for her
    daughter at the same time as Vimmi was applying for her son.

    Just a year
    after starting their consultancy,
    PEAS (Private Education Advisory Services),
    Jennifer came to Vimmi with another big request: would she co-write a book with
    her based on their experiences? They ended up collaborating on The NYC
    Private School Admissions Handbook
    , which was published in June, and walks
    parents through the steps they must take (from playgroup politics to admission
    tests) to apply to the city’s private nursery schools and kindergartens.

    You
    write that you wished you had a book like this when you were applying to
    schools for your own children. After working in admissions, why would you need
    a guide?

    Jennifer
    Brozost
    : It’s not that we needed the book to know how to
    do an interview, but to keep ourselves organized. In the back of the book, we
    have checklists and places for notes. People can go to their interview, come
    back, and write down everything there. It’s just to keep it fresh. It gets so
    crazy when you apply. Also, we included anecdotes to keep it light. We know
    it’s a serious process, but the more relaxed our clients are, the better they
    are going to do in their interviews. Our most difficult clients are the ones
    who are so stressed out.

    You
    don’t recommend prepping children for the kindergarten admissions test, but
    aren’t you in effect prepping their parents?

    JB: It’s
    very different. It’s not really prepping parents. It’s just educating them on
    the process. It is giving them someone real to talk to after each interview. We’re
    just kind of doing a lot of their homework for them, and they can trust us.
    They go to these different schools and then ask us to interpret the education
    for them.

    In the
    front of your book, you identify clients who recommend you by their initials,
    not their names. Is that because there is a stigma to using an admissions
    consultant?

    JB: Yes,
    there is. You don’t want to feel like you had a step up on anyone.

    What is
    the first tip you give to parents applying to nursery school or kindergarten?

    Vimmi Shroff :
    Talk to someone who is objective [in order] to learn about a school. In this
    process there is a lot of park bench gossip. We saw tons of “frenemies” created
    this year, parents who were applying to schools who could be nasty to each
    other.

    What is the top mistake that parents make?

    VS : Herd
    mentality. This is New York City, and people get so
    caught up and competitive and think the admissions process is their personal
    game, but it is actually a child’s life they are dealing with. Show respect to
    your child for who he or she is. Do not follow what other people want your
    child to be doing.

    JB : You
    really need to understand the philosophy of each school to which you are
    applying. That information is crucial for you to make the right decision. You
    want to find a school that fits your child.

    You
    write that all
    New York City private schools offer
    fabulous educations. Can you explain why?

    VS: Because
    they invest in great teachers. They value education. That is the reason they
    are a school in New York City. It’s not easy to run a
    school here. They are always learning. The private schools also have a lot of
    resources compared to public schools.

    JB: You’re
    also getting smaller classrooms, and more individualized attention. The problem
    with public schools, even though there are great ones, is that they are getting
    overcrowded again. Also they really have to bring up the bottom of each class
    to perform well on tests. So in the third grade, because of the third grade
    testing, they really teach to the test for a lot of the year. It’s not a
    negative thing; it’s just different. Private schools are not held to those
    public testing standards, so kids do a lot of different things.

    For more information, visit nypeas.com.

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