Thinking of hosting a charitable birthday party? Consider this:
• Proceed with permission. Before your child’s birthday, ask if he would like to have a charitable party. Move ahead with party plans only if he is in total agreement, then keep him central to all aspects of the planning and celebration.
• Explore the options. There are several ways to host a charitable party. Ask guests to participate in the charitable giving process, either by monetary means or by donating a specific type of gift; create a charitable project at the party to be donated, such as stuffing teddy bears; or opt out of party frills and make a personal contribution.
• Choose a charity. Talk with your child about the kind of non-profit organization he would like to work with. Find an institution that taps into his interests — animals, art, literature, etc. Or adopt an underprivileged family with children the same age as your child.
• Contact and confirm. Contact the organization and ask what type of donation (monetary or other) is needed.
• Invite and inform. If you choose to have guests participate in the gift-giving process, include a note with the invitation explaining your effort. If specific items are needed, make suggestions.
• Go the extra mile. Create a party theme with activities your child will enjoy. Focus on friendships and having fun.
• Deliver the goods. Once the party is over, include your child in the final gift-giving transaction. Take his picture with the donated items and have him go along to deliver them. If you are giving to a specific family, encourage your child to write a note letting the recipient know he was glad to help.
• Offer accolades. Give your child praise for sharing his birthday.
• Live it out. Set an ongoing example by integrating giving into your family’s lifestyle throughout the year.
