Inhale, Now Inhale…


Did you know that the days of Lamaze hee-hee-hoo breathing–which consist of short, quick breaths–are falling into the past? Today, more women are practicing deep belly breathing during the labor and delivery process. As a labor support doula, I have seen firsthand that this is what works best. I believe it is one of the most powerful comfort measures a woman can use while going through labor and delivery.

The reason I like deep belly breathing is because it helps “turn on” the parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for our rest-and-relax response (as opposed to the autonomic nervous system, which controls our fight-or-flight response). The body responds to the parasympathetic nervous system by slowing the heart rate and decreasing blood pressure while increasing the release of endorphins.

Conversely, I have found that patterned or coached breathing (i.e. the “hee-hee-hoo” of traditional Lamzae)–while it can have a positive effect by creating distraction–can also cause short, shallow breathing, and potentially hyperventilation, muscle tension, and anxiety.

 

There may be times during labor–i.e. the transition period, resisting the urge to push, during the pushing stage, or as the baby’s head is crowning–when deep breathing is challenging. The breath may end up short and shallow, blown out, or what I call “defused.” However, if the intention is still to try and take a deep breath, even though it may not come to fruition, the mother gains the benefits of it. She will feel more focused and relaxed by even attempting deep breathing.

Another benefit to the deep breathing method is that you can use it differently depending on the task at hand. When faced with a challenging situation in which you may need a little more strength, such as getting through the height of a contraction, focusing on the inhale can provide you with more energy or prana. The other side of the breath is the exhalation (rechak), which cools and relaxes the body and mind. Focusing on the exhale can help remind women that instead of tightening their body when feeling a lot of sensation, they can instead use this release of breath to try and surrender to the discomfort.

 

Some women like to count their breaths: 4 counts to inhale, 4 counts to exhale, and so forth. This type of breathing is often used in yoga and is known as sama vritti pranayamaor or even-fluctuation breathing. In this case, one still receives the helpful effects of deep breathing while finding a distraction or focal point within the breath.

 

I also teach a variation of viloma breathing, or 3-part breathing. This involves breathing into the belly, then drawing a little more breath into the ribcage, allowing the ribs to widen all the way up to the collarbone. Then, you exhale from the top downward, letting the air out from the ribcage, allowing the ribs to slide closer together and the belly to deflate, gently drawing the navel towards the spine.


Another technique to explore is exhaling with vocalization: “hmmm…ahhh…oooh…shhhh.” Again, this encourages a commitment to a long, deep inhale and long, slow exhale.

 

However much I believe in the benefits of deep breathing, it is really up to each woman to discover which breathing techniques are most effective for them at any given moment. You may find yourself jumping between several techniques and discovering usefulness for each at different points of your labor. The most important thing is to commit to your breath and trust that it will help you.

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Dedimus Potestatem

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To register, visit <a href="https://www.potestatem.co/bookclassesnow" target="_blank" rel="noopener">https://www.potestatem.co/bookclassesnow </a>or email us at <a href="mailto:[email protected]?subject=REGISTER" target="_blank" rel="noopener">[email protected]</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/leadership" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Leadership: Middle School ages 10-13, High School ages 14-18</a></p> <p>This is a unique leadership course that gives students the skills they need to succeed in life. Using an activity-based syllabus centered around character traits most sought and admired in leaders (initiative, honesty, self-control, adaptability, empathy, persuasiveness, resourcefulness, diligence, tolerance, determination, generosity, punctuality, courage, reliability, endurance, deference, creativity and integrity) students learn how to deal with situations they encounter in life. These building blocks will ensure they grow to become the leaders so sought after by our burgeoning society. Our grading rubric was adapted with the permission of Neil Mercer, the Director of research and Head of Faculty at The University of Cambridge.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/little-leaders-prek-and-kindergarten" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Little Leaders: Primary School Ages 6-9</a></p> <p>Developed by former pre-school and elementary teachers, this ethics-centered program utilizes a play-based method to encourage students to explore and apply soft skills in their daily lives. While cultivating the skills they will need to build strong, successful relationships, they will learn how to find their voice and showcase themselves in the best way. Students will learn to communicate and negotiate so they can be better team leaders and team players. 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This course is ideal for middle and high school students.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/stem-dna-ethics" target="_blank" rel="noopener">STEM and Bioethics: (Ages 10-18)</a></p> <p>Our STEM program will give kids the opportunity to think critically about science and society, and to practice communicating scientific topics in ways everyone can understand. To be a successful scientist in our modern world, one must not only have a broad understanding of scientific material learned at school, but also the ability to communicate effectively and share that knowledge with others. Each week of this program will build on the previous while also introducing new scientific topics for discussion.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/virtual-after-school-etiquette" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Etiquette (Ages 5 and up)</a></p> <p>Due to increasing popular demand from groups and individuals, we have decided to offer our etiquette course as an eight week after-school class. Students will not only learn how to introduce themselves and their friends, they will explore appropriate language for quotidian and special occasions, how to enter and leave conversations, proper table behavior for different scenarios, effective strategies for conflict resolution and negotiation, the importance of tone, expression, and body language in every social interaction and why manners and soft skills are essential to a successful life.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/essay-writing" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Speech and Essay Writing: Ages 10-18</a></p> <p>This group class includes eight one-hour online sessions focused on the creation, development, and delivery of informative and persuasive speeches. This program is tailored to the needs of the individual(s) in question and can include essay writing, use of stylistic devices, and persuasive rhetoric and/or instructions on how to craft and deliver a persuasive or informative multidimensional presentation with compelling slides, audio, and videos.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/visual-storytelling" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Visual Storytelling</a></p> <p>Multimedia platforms have increasingly become more popular for educators, artists and businesses. Young people all over the world have begun using media to amplify initiatives, educate, share science, poetry, art, movement, culture and more. In this class students will learn to capture brief videos that share their voice and vision with the world.</p> <p>College application course </p> <p>Discover the fundamentals of style, narrative, and theme for the ideal college application essays! In these sessions, you will begin by examining outstanding Personal Statements and by brainstorming your own. Then, move on to draft and edit the specialized supplemental essays for each college on your list. Space is limited to ensure personalized attention.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/essay-writing" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Academic writing</a> </p> <p>These are sessions focused on academic writing. Our tutors have years of experience in drafting, editing, and teaching essay writing. Each package will include a consultation with our tutors to assess individual needs. </p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/test-prep-sat-shsat-act-gre-gmat-asvab-tachs-more">Test Prep: SAT, SHSAT, ACT, GRE, GMAT, ASVAB, TACHS + more</a></p> <p>These classes are focused on identifying the quickest and most efficient path toward improving students' standardized test scores. Starting with a diagnostic practice exam, this program will target the key subject matter your students need to master while integrating timing, triage, and practice strategies. We aim to regularly emulate the real-life conditions of tests until students are comfortable working quickly, accurately, and efficiently. Sessions can be one hour or two hours in length, as needed.</p> <p>Computer Programming: Coding for Kids</p> <p>In these sessions, we start by discussing the basics of computer programming, what it is, what it can do, and what it was built on. Then we will begin experimenting with block-based programming languages. Students will learn the basics of computer architecture, binary code, compilers, and algorithms. By the end of the course, students will be able to produce small programs of their own. The cost of materials is not included. This class is available to younger students (Ages K-1) and middle and high school students. </p> <p> </p> <p> </p>

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<p>For those who live action sports, a week at Woodward West is beyond anything they’ve ever imagined. With an over 50-year legacy of teaching athletes balance and agility, Woodward knows what it takes to learn and be the best in the sports kids love. That is why we’ve built the most innovative parks, with features and training tools that help reduce injury and give kids a safe space to progress in the sports they love.  </p> <p>11 weeks of summer camp offered in 2024 will feature the following programs:</p> <p>- Skateboarding</p> <p>- Scooter riding</p> <p>- BMX freestyle biking</p> <p>- BMX racing</p> <p>- Parkour</p> <p>- Roller skating</p> <p>- Multisport</p> <p> </p> <p>The multisport program is a great place where kids can get a taste of all the action sports and discover their true passion!</p> <p>Woodward instruction and parks are built for progression, while recreational activities guarantee campers never have a dull moment. There are also pro athletes and Olympians in attendance each week who teach and hang with campers all week long.</p> <p>There’s no place like it. Join us this summer!</p>