“Dad Jeans” And Other Denim Pitfalls To Avoid

Do you dream of one day finding that perfect
pair of jeans? The ever-elusive pant that will solve all your problems? The
denim discovery that can make you look thinner, taller, younger, happier? —

If you’re like the rest
of us, you secretly wish your jeans were a little less “blah” and a little more
“yah!” Lucky for all of us, New York
Family
’s models-turned-re-stylists Beckie Klein and Martina Gordon have
come to the rescue. Collectively known as Beckiemartina, these style mavens
have revamped closets from the Upper East Side to Soho, and know some great tricks and hints to snag that all-important
wardrobe staple. You can find their expertise in our September issue—in a primer
for denim-challenged moms—but for now, the fashion gurus offer a few “denim don’ts”
for dads, and the rest of us.

Have You Seen
“Dad Jeans”?

Who remembers
how much grief President Obama got when he
wore high-waisted, light wash jeans
to throw out the first pitch at the
All-Star Game a few years ago? As his “Dad Jeans” made national headlines, even
the leader of the free world admitted he was “a little frumpy” wearing them.
Since jeans are acceptable almost everywhere now—from board rooms to five-star
restaurants—Beckie and Martina agree that men should follow the same jeans
rules as women. “Men need to invest in their jeans and get a great-looking pair
of dark jeans,” says Beckie. “Now, we aren’t men and it’s hard for us to say
what is comfortable or not, but we know what our husbands buy…and what we like
to see them in.” On that list: jeans from J. Crew, Acne and Levis
511
. “APC
jeans
are great,” Martina says. “It’s a brand that has been around for a
long time; it was one of the first really cool and hip jeans on the market. It
is raw denim, and the jeans age with you.”

Why
You Don’t Need Black Jeans. Really.

They love the
darker washes and greys, but as for black denim, Beckie and Martina say to
pass. “We aren’t fans of black jeans,” Martina says. “They are too dressy for
daytime, but not dressy enough for evening. You just don’t know what to do with
them.” Instead of wasting the dollars—and precious closet space—on a pair of
black jeans, they say buy the black cigarette pant. “It’s a classic piece that
you can dress up or down,” Beckie suggests.

Old Jeans
Make You Look…Old.

“Some of our
clients hang onto specific styles of jeans thinking they will come back in
style,” Beckie says, “and that cut of jean might, but it would be in a
different denim or a different wash and10 years from now.” As you get
older, they suggest, it helps to keep your jeans cleaner, simpler, upgraded.
Leave the trends to the young ladies in their 20s. “A sloppy, trendy look is
not a good look as you age,” Martina says, laughing. “The more wrinkles you
have on your face, the less you can have on your clothes. We know! We are right
there with you…iron in hand!”

For
more style wisdom, visit beckieandmartina.com.

Relevant Directory Listings

See More

Speakitaly NYC

<p>SPEAKITALY NYC offers stimulating and entertaining lessons for children 0 to 16 years through a wide combination of activities based on the communicative approach anchored in the Common European Framework of Reference: active learning (group work, role plays, etc.) and practice exercises aimed to improve listening, speaking, reading, and writing skills. Kids will start speaking and using Italian in a very natural way.  Small classes capped at 6 students to make sure each one gets the needed attention and facilitate learners' progress. </p> <p>Our method is driven by a didactic method that is the result of constant updates, professional certifications and more than 10 years of experience in working with non-native speakers from different native languages and levels of knowledge.</p> <p>Our aim is to develop a range of Italian language skills while improving accuracy that will enable the students and participants to interact without stress or feeling rushed. We want to help those in the community really embrace not only the true culture in Italy but the Italian culture within New York City… Who doesn’t love what Italy represents in the kitchen, in history & in the arts?</p> <p>Speakitaly wants to support multilingual families who want to learn a new language or pass along their ancestor’s heritage and culture. Raffaella, the founder said: "We see language awareness and intercultural sensitivity as the milestones for an inclusive society. Italian, like all other languages, is an enrichment and a growth in every way. Vi aspettiamo!"</p>

BAMkids

<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;" data-sheets-value="{" data-sheets-userformat="{">BAMkids presents adventurous art and ideas for young audiences, igniting the imaginations of creative kids ages 3—11 with a fun and engaging lineup of workshops, movie matinees, and live performances from around the world.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;" data-sheets-value="{" data-sheets-userformat="{"><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">BAM Education connects learning with creativity, engaging imagination by encouraging self-expression through programs for students, teachers, and audiences of all ages. Explore the programs on their website to learn more about their opportunities for creative online engagement!</span></span></p>

Bounce! Family Entertainment Center

<p>Bounce! Family Entertainment Center is an indoor birthday party and play space located in Syosset, NY. Perfect for birthday parties, group events, open play, and more! We have the best party packages on Long Island! Our facility has multiple AWESOME attractions: The Trampoline courts, The Adventure Zone, Bumper Cars, Laser Tag, Soft Play, Arcade, & MORE! If you need a break from jumping and climbing, try out some of our delicious food from The Bounce Bites Kitchen! Come on in to any of our Open Play, Toddler Time, or Glow Night sessions!</p>