It’s never easy planning a birthday party for your child, no matter the age. This year, consider thinking a little out of the gift-wrapped box by requesting donations in lieu of gifts from party guests. Some New York City organizations have been noticing this unique celebration as an inspiring new trend. Here, three charities give their take on the idea. But don’t forget, as you contemplate incorporating this new tradition, be sure to keep the focus of the day on the birthday boy or girl—after all, it’s his or her celebration!